I think all kids get embarrassed by their parents at some stage. I know when my youngest was only 14 my having grey hair was an embarrassment to her. She told me to go and get it coloured. And there was one time when we were on a family holiday at a show and I got called out of the audience to be on the stage for a skit. My very full long hair attracted attention I think and got me noticed. And of course I had to ham it up when I was on the stage. That was embarrassing for all of our daughters even though all eyes were on me and not them!
I was listening to a song on the radio station and immediately recalled two youtube clips done by separate DJs of that station to the song (Single Ladies). I remembered saying to the wife of one of the DJs I wonder how their son will take it when he’s older? She had responded he’ll either be embarrassed or will laugh at his dad and join in.
My strain of thought got me thinking. We can never avoid doing something that will embarrass our kids at certain times in their lives – that’s just how kids are. Our actions or words may make them think that others will think badly of them. After all kids and teens are ‘me’ focussed and tend to think the whole world revolves around them. And it does to some extent.
However, it’s important that the things that embarrass them then, will not remain an embarrassmentthroughout their lives as they grow into adulthood. I recall hearing different people through my life speak about their parents in a tone other than pride. A mother’s actions (and perhaps a Proverbs 31 Woman) and that of the father can vastly affect their child’s thoughts and actions for the rest of their life.
In Proverbs 31:26-28 we are told: She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue, She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idelness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.
When your sons and daughters have grown up will they look back and see a mother who spoke with wisdom and will they call you blessed? Will your husband continue to praise you (and you him)?
It only takes a moment to consider what you are about to say or do and think forward to the consequences. Self-gratification today through an angry word, a quick reaction, can indeed birth something that will stay for much longer.