Ten I’s of Prayer #10


Well, we come to the end of our I’s, and I saved the best one for last, at least, I think it’s the best one. Intimacy.

What is intimacy? We think we know. Let’s check and see.

The main definitions of ‘intimacy’ mean a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group, an act or expression serving as a token of familiarity, affection, or the like, the quality of being comfortable, warm, or familiar, and privacy especially as suitable to the telling of a secret.

Ooo…don’t you love that?

According to all our words on prayer…


…none of them will be effective if we do not have an intimate relationship with the Lord.

Though we have virtually perfected our horizontal conversations, we have seriously failed in our Vertical one. Prayer is the development of our personal relationship with the Lord, as our intimate friend.

This spirit-converse can be found only when one retreats to that quiet place, to listen for the intimate whisperings of our precious Lord.

The intimacy of prayer is like a child or grandchild crawling up in your lap just to snuggle with you because he or she loves you. Do you ever crawl up in the Father’s lap just to love on Him? He delights in that, just as you do.

Do you make time to experience this cherished alone-time with the Lord? Or do you merely rush in, lay out your plans and wishes, and rush out again?

No great soul ever grew in intimacy with the Lord on the streets of a busy life, only in the solitude of prayer. When busyness keeps us from hearing the whispers of our Beloved and keeps us too distracted to feel the comfort of His arms and the peace of His words, we will never discover what Mary did as she sat as His feet.

We need to be alone with God, where no outcries of earth intrude, where no ghosts of years past interrupt, where no outside opinions interfere, where no urgency of decisions impede.

Is intimacy with the Lord missing in your life? If you want to know the Lord and grow the fruit of spiritual graces, spend time in His presence, for only then will deep affection blossom, resulting in a richer relationship with Him.

Speaking of prayer, Martin Luther said “to be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.”

If I could inject anything into your heart about prayer, it would be this: be still in His presence and listen, guard your heart against intruders, have the right attitude by not being in fear or doubt, or being timid, whiney, or hypocritical, do not take it for granted or leave it out of your daily schedule, claim your inherited rights and privileges in Christ and the promises of the Word, pray for all men, pray for Israel, rely on the Holy Spirit, fast when necessary, pray according to God’s Word and His will, pray in faith, trust, confidence, patience, boldness, and expectation, all in the Name of Jesus, and until you have peace, praising and giving thanks to God at all times.

~~Blessings of intimacy, Lynn~~


1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. anglhugnu2
    May 25, 2009 @ 04:31:55

    I found it quite strange how the word “safe” never once could be found in your posting. I did like what I read…BUT, I never once found the word safe or safety used.

    This was particularly true when you spoke of a young child climbing upon the lap of a grandparent. While saying they love you is a good explanation….it would seem even more definitive to say a young child feels safe to crawl upon the lap of an adult.

    I make mention of this because….well…I do believe most persons do not feel safe in the presence of God. There seems always a cloud of suspicion…or at most paranoia about not being good enough to have a close relationship with God.

    From what I have read, it is clear you are aware of the unconditional love The Father offers to all in equal measure. No one person has more or less love from The Creator. Each and every one share a very unique bond of intimacy.

    With that said, because we have taught ourselves to have so many false expectations that appear real which involve God….we carry around a limited sense of safety about how truly close we are…or for that matter…can ever be with God.

    Once we elliminate the false expectations appearing real (FEAR) surrounding our flawed version or vision for what God offers….we will all know the true, genuine, authentic intimacy within our grasp.


    Author of IM with God


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